Being a “unicorn” or “bull” has a special place in the swing lifestyle and it can be exhilarating experience. You set your own rules and boundaries without having to negotiate or compromise with a partner. Single women or a “unicorn” might have special incentives at swing clubs, events and house parties, their admittance is generally very low cost or even free. Single women with or without intention lure in both couples and single men, therefore Unicorns might be in demand in most Swing communities.
Single men or “bulls” don’t get the same perks as “unicorns” when it comes to most gatherings, whether it be a club or house party. If they can attend, the price they pay is usually about double of what it costs a couple. The single male that takes the time to converse with a couple and wait for the couple to make the first move, will have success as a single male in the lifestyle. A “good” single male is a desire for a lot of couples. If you have achieved that title, your sex life is undoubtedly satisfied.
You are single and you do what you want, answer to no one, set your own play schedule. If you are lucky you will have certain couples that you see regularly. You desire different sexual partners and being in the swing lifestyle you certainly can achieve that. The only question is what do you do about Love? After the excitement of being a “unicorn” or a “bull” in this lifestyle wears off, or you simply miss having a partner to lay in bed with and discuss that night’s sexual encounter, maybe you enjoy looking with a partner through profiles or setting dates with other couples as a couple with the hope of a hook-up.
So, you have come to Swing Love because you have made the decision that you want to find love again, you miss waking up to a partner or spouse, you want to feel like a team. Even though there is a lot more to being a swinger when you have a partner, it too can be very rewarding. Couples, is where swinging came about and couples are always desired. So, as a Swingle, how do you find love? Like anyone else finds love? Think again. If a single man goes into a popular “vanilla” nightclub with many single ladies and says, “I am looking to fall in love with a woman that will not only allow me to sleep with other women or couples, but I would like her to join me and it would be great if she were bisexual too, because that is a turn on for me.” I don’t think that will go over well. I don’t know of a “vanilla” dating site that has an option to select Swing lifestyle or Poly lovestyle. So here we are ….. SwingLoves.com…..the dating site for Lifestyle and Lovestyle looking for love.
Our primary purpose is to provide a dating site that has the swingle looking for love and the poly looking for more love in mind. You might say to yourself, “Swingers and Polyamory…together in the same site?”…..We say, why not. In your profile you will select what your preferences are, and how you identify. There are many individuals and couples that were swingers before identifying as Poly. For instance, a couple looking for a 3rd whether it be a female or a male and before you know it they are a now a thrupple or triad. Since this is not a hook up site but a dating site, you can be reassured that you will discover others looking for the same thing as you…..LOVE.